9 awesome reasons why i vowed to date and get married to an older woman

  
I’ve always dated older ladies. There is always something that attracted me to them. They seemed more mature, more intelligent and sexier. I have always felt this way about older ladies since I can remember. In Secondary school, for example, I had a crush on a girl in my class who was about two years older, interestingly, we bear the same name. Back then, a two-year age difference was like a decade age difference.

I only dated a younger girl once— my firstlove, and it did last very long because she was the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen and i was so emotional about her, even till date — she was simply what you'll call a 'perfect match'.
I know a lot of guys in their 20s and 30s feel that a younger woman is better. I think they are just confused. I’m sorry, but I’ll take matured over inexperienced any day of the week and I have good reasons for it.

My good reasons for dating an older woman are as follows:
1. They can hold better conversations.

An intelligent older woman have lived through more experiences and is capable of relaying more interesting information than a younger woman.
Intelligent people get more knowledgeable and wiser over time. Why would you want to meet a girl at 20 when you know she’ll be even more amazing at 27?

2. They know what they want, and they’re straightforward about it.
With age, women — like men — get to understand themselves better. They understand their emotions, and they understand what it is they want out of a relationship.
They’re more willing to commit and to talk things out in order to make the relationship work. Most importantly, older women are less likely to run when things get difficult, which they just about always do.

3. They are generally more focused on their careers.
I prefer driven, strong and brilliant women. If that’s not your thing, then I guess it doesn’t really matter if a woman is focused on her passions.
Either way, it sometimes takes quite a bit of time for people to explore their options and find themselves before they find their purpose in life. If they’re older, they’re statistically more likely to have figured that part out.

4. They’re more appreciative of relationships.
Young women are happy they are in a relationship… until they’re not. Older women understand how difficult it is to find someone half-decent, so when they find someone they really like, they try to make it work, to not throw it away over any stupid reason.
Older women are usually more thoughtful and caring. They understand that compromise is sometimes part of the deal and are willing to do what is necessary for the good of the relationship.

5. They’re more passionate.
Mature women have a better understanding of life. They have a stronger love for life and are passionate in what they do. They love deeper.
They are able to connect with you in ways that younger ladies are not yet able to understand. With time comes a new way of loving. There are many shades of loving; as they overlap over the passing years, they become deeper.

6. They’re more open to trying new things.
Maybe you don’t see the need to try something new. But believe me, that’s only until you do try something new.
The beauty with older women is that they feel they have a good amount of control in the relationship, which is incredibly sexy, by the way — and don’t so much ask you to try new things, but simply try them for you.
You know all those things you’ve seen on TV? That’s what an older woman can do.

7. They’re more willing to be a team.
I love being independent when doing things — always have, always will. But the fact is, flying solo gets lonely sometimes. There is a way to feed your egocentric competitiveness and hunger for greatness while maintaining a great relationship; finding a partner to take over the world with you is all the need, and older women can give you that.
You have to succeed, but being successful as a team helps a lot. Do it with the right person and it will be much easier — no matter what you are trying to accomplish. A life partner is supposed to help you succeed in life.

8. They’re sexier.
Sure, at a certain age, a woman’s body begins to deteriorate.Honestly, if a woman keeps a healthy diet and exercises regularly, she can look so good as she ages.
Sexiness isn’t defined by the body alone. Sexiness comes with age. Older women know how to be sexier. I wish I could explain that better, but unfortunately I haven’t quite figured that out. I’ll get back to you on that one.

9. You can learn more from them.
The most important thing in life is learning. Without learning, we are not really living. Having an intelligent, fascinating, slightly mysterious and incredibly impressive woman by your side, there for you and there to experience things with you, grow with you, is the most that any man can ask for.

If you are with a woman that you can’t learn anything from, then you are with the wrong woman. The right woman will be the woman who surprises you and impresses you for your whole life.
She will be the woman you never stop chasing because you never stop trying to figure her out, trying to explain how it’s possible that she could make you love her so much.

I’m not saying it can’t be a younger woman, but from my experience, it’s always been the older ones who have haunted me.

Note: When i said Older ladies/women, i don't mean someone as old as my mother. I am referring to ladies/women who are either your age mate or older by not more than five years.